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July 15, 2009 11:50 AM

The Outer Versus Inner Focus

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In Phase 1 of The Human Game, the emphasis, perhaps even the obsession, is on looking outside of yourself at the details of what's happening in the story line of your life, and trying to change, fix, or improve those details.

The rationale goes something like this, "If I can just get _____ in the story line to look like this, _______," then I can be happy, relax, enjoy life more, feel successful, etc."

But that can never happen.

There is no shape or alignment of outside events or story line details that will ever provide the consistent and lasting experience of True Joy.

The experience of True Joy comes from within you. It starts there, as an internal experience, and is then taken with you into all the stories and scenarios you experience in your day to day life.

The way to open into that inner experience is to leap into Phase 2,  use the tools to drill holes through and ultimately knock out the cloud cover, and experience your own Consciousness expanding as that happens, until you naturally open into the True Joy Experience.

I've mentioned this before and will probably mention it again. You already know it to be True, consciously or from somewhere deep inside yourself. But we get so mesmerized by the illusion, the story line details, our old patterns, that we so often forget.

Remember .... now!




July 3, 2009 11:30 AM

How The Focus On Goals, Targets, Outcomes, Clear Intent, And Results Squeezes True Joy Out Of Your Experience ...

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Virtually every self help, personal growth, personal development,  spiritual growth, or how to succeed in life and business strategy hammers home the importance of setting goals, having targets, preferred outcomes, desired  results, having a clear intent for every action and activity.

The party line on this is that if you don't start with such a focus, you won't get anywhere, and certainly not where you want to go.

I have three things to share about that today:

  1. How do you know that the goals, targets, outcomes, intent, and results you focus on are what would REALLY be best for you, what would really lead to the experience of fun, pleasure, True Joy, etc. -- if achieved? The Truth is, you don't. In general, consciously, we're clueless about what would really make us happy.

  2. When you focus so hard on goals, targets, outcomes, intent, and results, you then track your progress, measure your movement, constantly compare where you are to where you want to be, and when you do that (a brilliant mind game), your discomfort level increases automatically, the fun and joy you experience from what you're doing almost always gets reduced dramatically, and while paying those prices, you'll still fail to achieve most of your goals, which will make the price you pay even higher -- and keeps The True Joy Experience far, far away.

  3. It is possible to produce extraordinary results -- financial and otherwise -- without focusing on any goals, targets, outcomes, intent, or results at all. If you knock out enough of the "cloud cover" that limits and restricts you, and you expand your Consciousness enough, you can simply focus on what's most fun for you, and by doing that, everything else will align and take care of itself from that expanded state of Consciousness, including the results you produce.

Does that sound crazy? Impossible? Pie in the sky dreaming? Maybe, but it's very do-able. I do it every day as do hundreds, maybe thousands at this point, throughout the world.

For now, I invite you to:

  1. Seriously consider the 1 question and the 2 points I made above
  2. Allow the possibility that what I'm saying is True incubate in your mind

Cheers ... 


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