
I've always loved the music of Michael Jackson. His career, and the way
his music touched the lives of millions around the world, has been very
inspiring to me too.
I've been reading several biographies of his life and career since his
death as he is a character who has always fascinated me. Yesterday, I
discovered something that's very supportive for our purposes here.
As
his solo career was beginning to soar, Michael set 2 principal goals
for his carer. He wanted to be "the biggest star in show business, and
the wealthiest." Those were two HUGE goals, tough to attain for anyone.
Notice
that nowhere on his principal goal list was experiencing True Joy, happiness, satisfaction, fulfillment, peace/serenity, etc. It was all about
what I call "outside event focus" versus what I call "inner feeling
focus."
For a time, he achieved the first goal, being "the biggest star in show
business." While he never reached the goal of being THE wealthiest star in show business, at
his peak, he certainly became
one of the wealthiest.
While
I'm sure he had moments (especially while performing, recording or
writing songs) when he felt happiness, satisfaction, fulfillment,
peace/serenity, etc., for the vast majority of his life, even as a kid and
especially in his final 10 years, he never got close to experiencing
being happy, joyful, satisfied, fulfilled, peaceful, etc.
What
can we learn from this as it relates to this blog? If True Joy, happiness, satisfaction, fulfillment, peace/serenity, etc. aren't Truly part of your
focus (beyond lip service), aren't part of your goal setting "package"
for your personal and business lives, aren't included in your targeting
system, aren't even on your radar screen, it's not likely you'll
experience them.
If you focus exclusively on outer events, at
best you'll experience those events (though most people fail to achieve
most of their stated goals for outer events). But even in the best case, it's unlikely that experiencing those events will bring
you what you really want which is True Joy.
The only way to Truly win in business (and life), to Truly succeed in business (and life) as I see it, is to:
- Begin by combining an outer event focus and an inner feeling focus when you set goals
- Ultimately let go of the focus on outer event focus -- completely -- and focus exclusively on inner feelings.
- When you expand your Consciousness to the point where you naturally
focus exclusively on inner feelings, the outer events take care of
themselves as a natural by-product of that expansion in Consciousness.
This seems "counter intuitive" from certain perspectives, but it's The
Truth nevertheless.
I'll be talking much more
about what we can learn from the life and career of Michael Jackson,
other celebrities and traditionally successful people, outer event
focus, inner feeling focus and more in my new
Illusions and Truth Show which is about to launch. Stay tuned for an announcement about that